I was recently treated to viewing a video of a complaint fest from a popular mens rights advocate. It appears one of the big problems of modern day living (and this from a man who looked to be at least late 30s/40ish) was how often he dates women who won’t treat him to dinner. I had to laugh looking around at his audience when I observed how many men, his age and older, were sitting there solemnly nodding their heads in agreement.
Again, I have to agree with Robert Bly, author of The Sibling Society, people in western civilization need to grow the hell up already.
The only thing of sense that came out of that video was the acknowledgement that women generally file for divorce first in order to be assured custody of their children. As generally the temporary custody morphs into permanent; unless there is abuse or neglect of some kind going on which is rare as most people do not abuse or neglect their children. So this is the basis of women filing for divorce FIRST. It’s part and parcel of the sacred obligation every women takes on once she becomes a mother to ensure her children remain under her care, custody and control and not have her kids jerked around in all kinds of weird custody and living arrangements, just so their fathers can pay less child support.
That’s men’s problem.
Don’t have any kids if you all are too stingy and cheap to pay for them afterwards. Save us all a lot of aggravation, so your line can die off and not become a burden on the rest of us.
Of course, he had the usual male audacity to claim women file first to STEAL THE CHILDREN.
Well guess what, you can’t steal what is already yours.
In fact, it is men who steal children from their mothers, as they would have no rights in nature or under natural law to children whatsoever. Men have taken these cases into courts of their own making and made up all this phony history, statistical lies, and laws to match, all in an attempt to bypass natural law and common sense in order to steal children from their mothers. So it is men who wear the badge of thieves…and let's face it many of these thefts (like theft everywhere) are for financial gain, nothing to do with the best interest of children whatsoever.
So in spite of the many lies and exaggerations that have been going on about why women file for divorce so much, as in: women are unstable, women are after men’s money, etc., the obvious fact is that women file first due to the natural maternal instincts to keep her young under her care, custody and control. Which is right where the young of every species on the planet, as well as our own, should be with their mothers.
AND go pay for your own damn dinners, you stingy cheapskates.