tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post8477179395256867387..comments2023-07-28T07:44:40.802-04:00Comments on Women as Mothers: Another Defeat for Common SenseNYMOMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-89121928495914116602006-11-17T07:09:00.000-05:002006-11-17T07:09:00.000-05:00Since 1991...that's outrageous. Almost 15 years s...Since 1991...that's outrageous. Almost 15 years since he's had a job. PLUS he's had no other kids with anyone else so there is no excuse for his lazy butt not working...not to mention the money he's costing our taxpayers to finance this life of a gentlemen farmer that he leads.<br /><br />Generally at least if a woman was home for that number of years she would have had a 'quiverful' of kids already. So down the road society would have something to show for their investment in this situation. Some future soldiers, nurses, taxpayers of some kind to keep social security going at least...<br /><br />But with this parasite nothing.<br /><br />I was actually reading that court order of Genia Shockome (I downloaded it from Liz Kates' site) and the Judge mentioned that her ex makes ONLY $26,000 annually. She makes $60,000.<br /><br />Now this is a couple where the guy is a computer programmer who speaks, reads and writes Russian and English. Genia Shockome is a relatively recent immigrant, relatively recent college graduate, who I assume had to learn our language from scratch. YET she's making more then twice what he is...supposedly. In a region btw, upstate NY which is economically depressed?<br /><br />So how does that happen?<br /><br />Let me say it before you do: lazy layabout pretending to be a stay-at-home dad so he can lounge around the house all day like a sack of crap...It's interesting the Judge quoted witnesses who were saying how unkempt the kids looked once their father got custody of them...yet the Judge didn't think that was a very important point in his ruling.<br /><br />Typical.<br /><br />I wonder if Texas was glad to have him and his children back there? I bet he's collecting some public benefits down there now and being a vast burden on those poor taxpayers in the county where he moved to...<br /><br />All I can say is good riddance. I'm glad he left NY. We have enough freeloadering men in this state, we don't need anymore. Get freakin jobs already...NYMOMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-82750967601504292006-11-16T21:42:00.000-05:002006-11-16T21:42:00.000-05:00That is blatantly untrue. Good fathers don't get t...That is blatantly untrue. Good fathers don't get the boot anymore. You're at least 20 years behind the times. Shoot, even abuser deadbeat dads can get custody anymore. My ex hasn't held a job since 1991, and he does just fine. He lives off me (child support) and his mom. And his gf some, who unfortunately for him doesn't care for full-time work either. Around here, they bend over backwards to accommodate any dad who shows up and is breathing. And that's the case in a lot of places now, especially in generally conservative areas.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-90523670769046423112006-11-13T19:05:00.000-05:002006-11-13T19:05:00.000-05:00Bloggernoggin you really are totally useless. As ...Bloggernoggin you really are totally useless. As the ONLY reason you are against this presumptive Joint Custody is because I'm for it...<br /><br />Do you even know what the issues are here? <br /><br />I bet if you were on an MRA site you'd be taking the exact opposite position...and don't bother with this baloney that you are concerned about 'abused women'...actually you fit the profile of an abuser yourself in taking custody of a child from its mother just to avoid paying child support (your words, not mine)...<br /><br />Presumptive joint custody would stop men like you in their tracks and for that reason ONLY I'm 100% for it...NYMOMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-50774275889734207702006-11-13T19:00:00.000-05:002006-11-13T19:00:00.000-05:00So do what you have to do then.
AND we'll see.So do what you have to do then.<br /><br />AND we'll see.NYMOMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-76913530809380435052006-11-13T18:04:00.000-05:002006-11-13T18:04:00.000-05:00Margaret Said:
> You are only going to make a
> he...Margaret Said:<br />> You are only going to make a<br />> heroine of me when people see<br />> the comments you've all made<br />> about me here and on other<br />> blogs...so you've shot yourselves<br />> in the foot.<br /><br />No, Margaret. The will just escort you out of the building. You are no-one's hero. You are (flagrantly) wasting the funds and resources of the university.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-6886548329754215592006-11-13T11:04:00.000-05:002006-11-13T11:04:00.000-05:00I'm not in favor if presumptive joint custody beau...I'm not in favor if presumptive joint custody beause of the damaging affects it can have on some children and mothers who were abused in the marriage, and it might even enable it to happen even after the relationship has ended. Here it comes. However, when the norm of the "mother getting custody" it's also sending a message to fathers that they are practically guilty before they've even done anything. It's like a double edged sword. I don't think that there's any right way to fix it, really. Just because 5 out of 100 men abuse a spouse, doesn't mean the 95 other great fathers need to suffer. The 95 that get the boot in their childs life isn't really worth the sacrafice of the other 5 men that abused.BloggerNogginhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12503834520903753530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-85661813498214190462006-11-13T06:11:00.000-05:002006-11-13T06:11:00.000-05:00For my two anonymous commenters, what I do on my o...For my two anonymous commenters, what I do on my own time is my own business.<br /><br />I suggest you focus more on your own blogs and lives instead of worrying about mine.<br /><br />Thanks.NYMOMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.com