tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post4441250183535635562..comments2023-07-28T07:44:40.802-04:00Comments on Women as Mothers: Unexpected Follow-up to Old Post...NYMOMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05762350054432716749noreply@blogger.comBlogger167125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-86869663210989009972009-11-23T10:12:58.132-05:002009-11-23T10:12:58.132-05:00V, if you are truly bored then you don't make ...V, if you are truly bored then you don't make several responses to me gabbing about how bored you are. Sheesh, another example of how crass and unsophisticated American women are...<br /><br />In a way, you do have a point that sometimes I don't have something clever to say but unlike you and pretending to be bored or declaring victory or running off, I just let the other person have the last word. In the case of your decision to buy a home, I felt that it was getting off topic and going in the direction of gossiping around real estate so I thought it best to it go. I was practicing quality control.<br /><br />But since you're so interested. I posted a response. I truly hope you enjoy it.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-2103895685702708882009-11-23T09:48:01.755-05:002009-11-23T09:48:01.755-05:00Not to interrupt here, V, but I don't think an...Not to interrupt here, V, but I don't think any of us knew that that was a comment that required an answer?<br /><br />I for one thought everyone was done talking about the hormones behind parenting.<br /><br />R.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-39701930580596852442009-11-23T05:33:38.809-05:002009-11-23T05:33:38.809-05:00"V, does this mean you're "bored&quo..."V, does this mean you're "bored"/"sleepy" (running away) again?"<br /><br />Ah, no, Polish Knight, running away is what you did on the new post when I mentioned I made enough money to buy a house without having to resort to a mortgage. Now, I'm done commenting.viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-78860110275548122252009-11-22T16:59:26.862-05:002009-11-22T16:59:26.862-05:00zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-36614006294833641232009-11-22T16:26:30.982-05:002009-11-22T16:26:30.982-05:00V, does this mean you're "bored"/&qu...V, does this mean you're "bored"/"sleepy" (running away) again?<br /><br />If that's the case, I'm ok with that. I'm sure everyone else is too. C'ya!PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-65683344487389715492009-11-22T15:56:55.069-05:002009-11-22T15:56:55.069-05:00"V, I was asking you seriously. Is this how y..."V, I was asking you seriously. Is this how you normally behave when you strongly disagree with someone?"<br /><br />You didn't like the comment I made about you feeling inferior while striving for superiority by lording yourself over others. That struck too close to home for your comfort level. You couldn't come up with anything clever to say, and your trying to put the focus on me to avoid discussing your own feelings of inadequacy. Let me reiterate one of my original points:<br /><br />"Your an insecure, mysogynist asshole who blames women for all your problems. You have no character. That makes you a loser."<br /><br />That's it in a nutshell. Well, my Polish Knight induced narcolepsy is starting to kick in again. Feel free to continue ranting and raving about me. I know that's why you keep coming back to me. I understand. I give you what your not getting at home. I'm your fantasy, but you'd never be able to handle the reality. In your mind, I represent all those failed relationships your inferiority complex ruined for you. That's why you need some kind of Stepford wife to feel like a man. It's easier to sleep with a Stepford wife and lie to yourself about what you really want while blaming all those women for your failure as a man and as a human being. I remember some song lyrics that describe our "cyber relationship" in your eyes:<br /><br />I'm your hell I'm your dream<br />I'm nothing in between<br />You know, you wouldn't want it any other wayviragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-30840821030370159482009-11-22T11:30:18.918-05:002009-11-22T11:30:18.918-05:00V, I was asking you seriously. Is this how you no...V, I was asking you seriously. Is this how you normally behave when you strongly disagree with someone?PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-80376958516930993352009-11-22T09:25:38.626-05:002009-11-22T09:25:38.626-05:00"V, now you're just being immature. I'..."V, now you're just being immature. I'm curious: Do you behave like this on a regular basis? Do you think this is normal?"<br /><br />Translation:<br /><br />"V, your so immature!" *Polish Knight sticks out tongue*viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-20623318422359144832009-11-22T08:58:40.078-05:002009-11-22T08:58:40.078-05:00V, now you're just being immature. I'm cu...V, now you're just being immature. I'm curious: Do you behave like this on a regular basis? Do you think this is normal?PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-39786021671385876752009-11-22T07:35:14.505-05:002009-11-22T07:35:14.505-05:00Stop being such a crybaby, Polish Knight! You brag...Stop being such a crybaby, Polish Knight! You brag about standing up to me, but your however many miles away hiding behind the anonymity on the internet for fuck's sake. That's the equivalent of some kid hiding behind his big brother and daring another kid to a fight. And your whining because you claim I'm calling you a blowhard (the term does fit). As for comparing you to a murderer? There are people who act and feel superior, and there are people who feel inferior while striving for superiority by lording it over others. In mysogynist men, both types can abuse and/or murder women. King was the second type, and you are too.viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-23798458844009100302009-11-21T14:41:17.385-05:002009-11-21T14:41:17.385-05:00You had just said: "It makes me shudder to th...You had just said: "It makes me shudder to think about it." You compared me to a murderer. Now you're claiming I'm a blowhard!<br /><br />My cat has better memory than you do.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-60090658368873289702009-11-21T06:32:06.417-05:002009-11-21T06:32:06.417-05:00"Heck, why are you having this conversation w..."Heck, why are you having this conversation with me at all? Oh, wait, that's right: Because I am a man who stands up to you. You hate it and cannot get enough of it, baby."<br /><br />Well, you sure told me off ! I can't get enough of big strong men who stand up to me from behind the internet! Sing it, Polish Knight!<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AO43p2Wqc08viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-45947530233736300202009-11-20T12:13:26.519-05:002009-11-20T12:13:26.519-05:00V, it's charming how little effort you put int...V, it's charming how little effort you put into considering the logical ramifications of the arguments you make and how they can be turned against you. <br /><br />You and King have a lot in common: You have negative views of men in general. You sound like a match made in heaven! Quick, V, you can still write love letters to him!<br /><br />Nobody, besides his attorney, is denying he had bad character. I'm not. He's a murderer. YOU were the one who brought up his unattractiveness and called him a "loser". If he was a good looking rap star who beat up his ho's, he would have his own VH-1 reality show and dozens of American women pawing all over him. Donald Trump is married to a foreign women as are many attractive professionals who go the foreign bride route. <br /><br />Your attempt to portray most men who marry foreign brides as murderous losers claiming that those who are not are "the exception" is dishonest and even laughable. After all, if this was really the case, why the need to go back to 2001? <br /><br />Your argument is pregnant with the presumption that you regard Anastasia as a whore. Plenty of people are economically desperate but that's no excuse for them to engage in prostitution anymore than men are excused for committing crimes to earn a living instead of working at low wages. But then again, such behavior is common even in the states. Your attempts to pretend that his income and social status is irrelevent is like denying the nose on your face.<br /><br />That leads us to your claim that King is a control freak exploiting economic conditions to his advantage. Yeah, that's like a woman deliberately gestating a child when she can't fully support it and using that child's economic conditions to get paid for her lifestyle. Or using the ownership of a child and demands for support to browbeat a spouse into doing the dishes... <br /><br />I love how you project King projecting his own shortcomings onto others. Yeah, you're the expert!<br /><br />Finally, regarding your accusations that if my wife dragged me through the mud that I might get nasty. I agree with you that there is something there: Your brother certainly isn't capable of such a thing. Neither is your husband. They have "good character" in that they either cave in or run away. But you don't seem terribly proud of that fact. YOU slipped out the wimp word to describe them, I didn't! If women find such men attractive, then why don't you and your brother embrace his "Real Man" submissiveness? Heck, why are you having this conversation with me at all? Oh, wait, that's right: Because I am a man who stands up to you. You hate it and cannot get enough of it, baby. <br /><br />Sorry, I'm taken. Stop being jealous of my wife.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-59148985102371714152009-11-20T07:35:54.066-05:002009-11-20T07:35:54.066-05:00"You do have a point, though, that King was n..."You do have a point, though, that King was no looker but like you said, neither are many aging American career women either. After all, if they were such winners they wouldn't have been desperate enough to date the likes of me! :-)"<br /><br />I don't care if King was a professor in international business or the President of the United States. It has nothing to do with what he does for a living, or how much he makes. He was a 40 year old man who had negative views of American women. Why? Most likely because he couldn't keep a woman interested in him. Sure he was ugly, but there are ugly guys out there who have something else to recommend them-GOOD CHARACTER. What kind of character flaws did King have? Well, let's see-the guy beat and murdered his wife. A wife who wouldn't have looked twice at him if weren't for desperate economic circumstances in her own country. Being ugly was the least of his problems, but because he lacked GOOD CHARACTER, he looked even more desperate as an ugly loser. And unfortunately, these are the kind of guys who like foreign women. Yeah, I'm sure there are guys who marry foreign women because they actually love them and treat them well. Exceptions noted. But more than likely, these guys don't go out of their way to marry foreign women because they have a problem with American women due to their own shortcomings. And they certainly don't have to take advantage of poor economic standards to entice some foreign woman to marry them. King was a guy who couldn't keep a woman due to his own mysoganist behavior. He blamed the American women for his own shortcomings rather than look at himself. Out of desperation, he buys into the stereotype of the "submissive" (traditional) foreign woman because he thinks they'll be easier to push around than an American woman would be. He also takes advantage of poor economic standards in other countries because he knows certain foreign women are desperate to escape that. He also wants to make them financially dependent on him so that THEY HAVE A DIFFICULT TIME LEAVING HIM. Unfortunately, in King's case, he found out that his wife wasn't as submissive that he thought, and he killed her. I don't care what you look like, or how much money you make. I don't care how well you claim to treat your wife. The parallels between you, King, and the other men of your ilk are just too much of a coincidence. You might think that your "happily" married now, but chances are good, your wife isn't going to want to remain your little Ukrainian housepet for the rest of her life. When that happens (and it will), I think she's going to see your true colors-a mysogynist asshole (and maybe she's already seeing it). It makes me shudder to think about it. I know her transition from your little ukranian housepet to "that ukranian bitch who fucked me over" is only a matter of time. Your an insecure, mysogynist asshole who blames women for all your problems. You have no character. That makes you a loser. That's it. End of story.viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-58093607144304215612009-11-19T16:04:20.767-05:002009-11-19T16:04:20.767-05:00V, if you keep doing that there's a chance the...V, if you keep doing that there's a chance they'll roll out of your head! :-)<br /><br />Let's assume for a moment that you're right and these women had enough self-esteem to get rid of a conceited asshole such as myself. As Richard points out, that doesn't seem to stop American women from sleeping with and bearing children for millions of OTHER conceited assholes out there! That hurts my feelings! :-) <br /><br />Going back to 2001, eh? It's likely that the per capita rate of spousal murder is LOWER with Russian brides than the general population. <br /><br />Regarding your generalization about King as a "loser". That's not entirely true. He was a professor in international business. And come now, bashing him for wearing glasses?!?! How 7th grade! Bad marriages that end in murder are nothing new. Check out an Agatha Christie novel sometime.<br /><br />You do have a point, though, that King was no looker but like you said, neither are many aging American career women either. After all, if they were such winners they wouldn't have been desperate enough to date the likes of me! :-)<br /><br />Finally, FYI, Kyrgyzstan is not "Russia" anymore than Canada is "America". The USSR is broken up.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-34013393816475502562009-11-19T11:24:45.573-05:002009-11-19T11:24:45.573-05:00"V, you foolishly reveal that you have a low ..."V, you foolishly reveal that you have a low opinion of yourself and of the men in your life."<br /><br />Whatever you say Polish Knight *rolls eyes*. I guess you would know. After all, you dated (supposedly) dozens of women in 10 years, and they were all nasty. More than likely, those women had enough self-esteem to get rid of a conceited asshole like you. However, I guess it worked out for you because your happily married to the woman of your dreams. That's great. I guess the thought that someone might mate with you because it can't be as bad as starving in the Ukraine would appeal to you. Ah, the perfect marriage-economic imperialism meets low-self esteem. I've got to see what I'm missing! Let me check out the bottom link:<br /><br />http://www.seattlepi.com/local/brid02.shtml<br /><br />Let's see-Anastasia King, a beautiful 20 year old classical pianist from Russia. Wow, Polish Knight, your absolutely right! These eastern european girls are absolutely gorgeous and well-educated. I can see why you would want one. God bless all the starving people in the Ukraine, or you wouldn't have a snowball's chance in hell with any of these women! Now I have to scroll down down and look at the American husband. OMG! *runs screaming from the room* "I'm blind! I'm blind! OMG, he's just so ugly!" *vomits* Indie King, Jr. *shudders* fat, bald, 40 year old American loser with glasses. Wow! Now I know what I'm missing! Thank God for that! And it sure doesn't help that Anastasia King was murdered by this weirdo. Thank God, I'm an American, and winners like this don't want me!viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-64084013840403244902009-11-17T11:13:34.060-05:002009-11-17T11:13:34.060-05:00V, as I pointed out to you, the "real man&quo...V, as I pointed out to you, the "real man" shaming ploy is meant to play upon machismo insecurities, not inspire men to reach beyond them. In addition, the ploy reveals the sexist thinking of the speaker that only real "men" can be "assured and self-confident" (as termed in the article). V, you foolishly reveal that you have a low opinion of yourself and of the men in your life. <br /><br />Indeed, the whole notion if contradictory as the article itself shows: "if you’re thirty years old and you still think that calling people names is cool because it makes you feel better, then that is a problem and you have to deal with it" If someone is reading the article to "be a real man" or to namecall someone else as not a real man, then they're not "real men".<br /><br />But you already know that.<br /><br />Hilarious.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-72624651158599396642009-11-17T09:31:40.016-05:002009-11-17T09:31:40.016-05:00And here's good advice for yours:
http://socy...And here's good advice for yours:<br /><br />http://socyberty.com/men/macho-bravado-versus-being-a-real-man/viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-65659553398323701492009-11-16T09:49:23.833-05:002009-11-16T09:49:23.833-05:00Virago, there's treatments for your condition:...Virago, there's treatments for your condition: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NarcolepsyPolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-45312503223496906222009-11-13T07:46:05.811-05:002009-11-13T07:46:05.811-05:00YYYYYaaawwwwwnnnnn!!!!......*falls asleep due to b...YYYYYaaawwwwwnnnnn!!!!......*falls asleep due to boredome*zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-66488109342867880062009-11-09T12:23:10.192-05:002009-11-09T12:23:10.192-05:00Virago, when you make a point they are usually tot...Virago, when you make a point they are usually totally counter to reality. The vets didn't get money as some kind of financial compensation scheme for loss of wartime civilian earnings. The idea was to compensate them for their service to the country. <br /><br />You have failed to address my main observation: Women do not serve the country in their personal reproductive choices and, in the case of impovershed single mothers, society would be better off if they didn't breed and stick the taxpayer with the bill and future criminals. Comparing them to military men is like comparing a bank robber who uses a gun to get money for himself to a soldier taking risks under military orders to protect the nation.<br /><br />It's hilarious that you trot out the silly claim that mothers raise children with little compensation. Yet... how do they afford to feed and house themselves much less their children if they are doing it all alone? Oh, wait, that's right: Men support them in that role while career women would rather dump their kids into daycare than support a SAH father. Got it. You've just devalued career women. Congratulations.<br /><br />As usual, you project your own selfish demands onto men. You gripe they don't do enough childcare (all caps) but you fail to see the women demanding the men work longer hours and earn more money. <br /><br />Regarding human capital. You treat children as chattel and demand to be paid to raise them. How about this concept: Why not raise children because you, gasp, love them? If you don't want to give up your precious time to raise kids, then don't have them! This is called adult responsibility. Men are held to this standard and it's a good one. Perhaps if we didn't have 6 billion people fighting for limited resources, maybe the world would be a different place.<br /><br />I love your crazy close about the Matrix and then trying to make a lionesse roar "the strong survive, the weak perish". Er, hello, if it wasn't for the welfare state and patriarchal patonrage, you'd be in a burka in a matter of seconds and the unwed mother's children starving on the streets and that would be the end of your tirade.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-46745072101032381872009-11-09T05:04:07.624-05:002009-11-09T05:04:07.624-05:00The GI BILL was COMPENSATION to veterans for what ...The GI BILL was COMPENSATION to veterans for what they gave up going to war. It didn't matter if they spent the war on the frontlines, or stateside-typing up paperwork to order rations for those on the front line. The point is that a VETERAN made less in over all life-time earnings than a guy who never went to war. Women make less in over all life-time earnings because they are usually the PRIMARY CAREGIVERS of children. Caregiving is necessary to turn infants into productive adult workers to fuel this entire economy. It's called HUMAN CAPITAL. It doesn't matter if a woman works full-time, part-time, or not at all. It doesn't matter if she's married or single. If she has a child, she's going to be the primary caregiver regardless. Women, mothers in particular, ARE THE BACKBONE OF THE ENTIRE ECONOMY. We're productive workers in our own right AND we raise the next generation of workers with little or no compensation. Yes, we deserve compensation for this. All those male breadwinners wouldn't have that nice retirement if they had to take care of children at the same time. Instead, their wives did it and got shit for retirement. Two-income families aren't perfect, but that's one reason why women SHOULD work-for the retirement benefits. OTOH, women are still screwed because they usually are stuck in flexible, low-paying jobs with no benefits in order to meet childcare obligations. They are usually the ones who take off of work for a sick kid or whatever. Plus, the male breadwinner tax system we have in place penalizes the lower earner in a two-income family. That's usually the wife. This all cuts into a working mother's life-time earning potential. Oh, I can hear the chorus now- but men do more childcare now than they use to! Wah! Big deal. THEY STILL DON'T DO ENOUGH CHILDCARE. What it boils down to is this-men get a SECOND INCOME, and women get the SECOND SHIFT. Now this has been argued to death on other posts. You still don't get it, and it's not worth going over and over again. NYMOM was right. It's like the Matrix. It's like someone offered us the choice of the red or blue pill. The red pill tells us the truth of the Matrix, and the blue pill returns us to the illusionary world of the Matrix. Well Polish Knight, I took the red pill, and you took the blue pill. Buy hey, Polish Knight, I don't blame you. Like I said. Survival of the fittest. You can't cope nor adapt. The strong survive, and the weak perish. Your just too weak.viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-5772903708369565772009-11-07T22:05:44.804-05:002009-11-07T22:05:44.804-05:00The USA casualties from WWII was 418,000 and this ...The USA casualties from WWII was 418,000 and this was in service to their country, not personal reproductive choices.<br /><br />Indeed, that's an interesting comparison. Soldiers had to obey orders. Using this logic, society should outlaw abortion and unwed motherhood...<br /><br />All in the name of what's best for the children and society, of course.PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-12520383184655419792009-11-06T22:04:39.467-05:002009-11-06T22:04:39.467-05:00Well, Richard, maybe we can bring back the origina...Well, Richard, maybe we can bring back the original GI BILL and all those great welfare benefits that allowed most of your father's generation to support their families. Good-bye to you and this issue, Richard!viragonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8740475.post-48037126897250281322009-11-06T11:33:44.071-05:002009-11-06T11:33:44.071-05:00Richard, that all sounds like what is known as a &...Richard, that all sounds like what is known as a "self-fulfilling prophesy". Women need to be safe from getting divorced or winding up alone if they can't find the breadwinner men they crave, so they jump on the feminist bandwagon which mows down the supply of such men and their salaries which justifies them getting on the bus in the first place.<br /><br />Or as the saying goes: If you're in a hole, there's no other way to go but dig deeper!<br /><br />In the meantime, you and your wife are they _lucky_ ones. Millions of lower class men and women (and their children) wind up being tossed off the back of the sled to the goddess of feminine fun and safety. <br /><br />I love what Ann Coulter said about the liberal attack on Gov. elect McDonnell's thesis:<br /><br />""In [McDonnell's master's thesis], he described women having jobs as detrimental to the family"<br /><br />Where did he ever get that idea? Oh, wait, REALITY!PolishKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16740194441387995674noreply@blogger.com